Hey guys, long time no see.
Can't leave you alone for 4 years can I! Just kidding!
I'm still digesting this, as I'm sure a bunch of you are, regardless of party lines. Over the past few days, scrolling through my facebook feed, I've seen a wide range of reactions to the news, from tears shed to deities praised. I've seen conservatives giggling at the absurdity of liberals throwing hashtags like
#notmypresident while apparently forgetting that they'd been saying the same of Obama for the previous 8 years. I've seen liberals desperately looking for a target to point the finger at -- it was the misogynist women! The sexist liberal left! Privileged third party voters!
To this I say, hold on. Take a step back, and maybe a few deep breaths.
If there's one thing I've always tried to be about, it's open and fair discussion. Debate, not screaming at each other and namecalling. I mean, I'm guilty of being a poor sport, too. But that sort of thing - immediately shutting down debates because you've been made uncomfortable by a differing opinion; branding all Democrats as
this and all Republicans as
that... Calling someone a racist because they voted for Trump without bothering to even ask
why they voted for him. Destroying yard signs and breaking shit.
Instead of being destructive, America needs to learn how to be less so in the way we discuss and act in politics.
We need to stop forcing Universities to not invite certain speakers simply because they might be offensive. We can't have universities become "safe spaces." Universities, the places where you pay literally tens of thousands of dollars to
learn and hear new ideas. Even uncomfortable ones. Even ones having to do with racism and religion and environmental issues and science. Things you cannot and should not avoid in university, because they cannot be avoided in
real life. One of my favorite quotes by Aristotle is this: "It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it."
No more branding all of one group as something. You likely don't know every single person in x party on a personal level. Starting a debate with a generalization about your opponent's position, especially without even letting them put their position forward, shuts down debate and achieves nothing. No one wants to continue a conversation after they've been called a sexist, a racist, a communist, a devil-worshiper, or sheep. Stop assuming, stop generalizing, stop being assholes to each other.
While I'm at it, no more bitching about people "appropriating x culture" with hairstyles, tattoos, clothing, jewelry, etc. This comes down to not being a dick. If you wouldn't yell, "You look fat in those pants!" to a stranger, don't start dressing someone down like some sort of Culture Warrior Military School drill sergeant.
"Acts of appropriation are part of the process by which we make ourselves. Appropriating - taking something for one's own use - need not be synonymous with exploitation. This is especially true of cultural appropriation. The "use" one makes of what is appropriated is the crucial factor." - Bell Hooks, Art on my Mind: Visual Politics
Also, no more sitting on our hands while millions and millions of dollars are thrown at politicians for more tv ads, more radio ads, more facebook ads, more youtube ads, more celebrities, more spotify playlists, more shitty gimmicks for sale in campaign stores (woman card, anyone?), just more
bullshit. Money in politics achieved nothing this election -- Trump spent half as much as Clinton did. Look at all the things it achieved! There was a
reason the DNC had Hillary locked in from the beginning.
I mean, I could keep going on, but I think I'm starting to sound angry haha. I mean, I am. I am angry about this outcome. And that's alright - emotions are only human. But anyway, I just needed to get this off my chest.
How are you all doing, and how'd the election go for you?